Yesterday I had to email my psychiatrist to ask him to fax a prescription for Topamax to the drugstore for me. At the same time I had to let him know how I was doing now after having been on the Topamax for almost four weeks. I was afraid to tell him that I was happy, as I thought that that way I would jinx myself and that would lead to unhappiness. I was also afraid to say that I was not happy for the same reason. So, I ended up saying that I was neutral, in between moods, and that it could go either way, but probably wouldn’t. What I mean to say is, that given circumstances, I could be happy or sad, but the way things are now, I am just sort of in between. Which is not a bad place to be at, and I am not complaining about that at all. It mostly feels very peaceful. Sometimes I have momentary happiness and I want to kiss and hug the dog and sometimes I have momentary sadness and I worry about my daughter. Mostly I just live from moment to moment and I don’t look too far in to the future and I don’t spend too much time looking in to the past. People I do think about every day are my daughter and my son and my parents, but it is only my daughter’s life that I can have any sort of influence on now.
I have fallen in to a nice ritual. Because Eduard works so often at night, I allow myself to go to bed at nine pm. That’s when I start going to bed, i.o.w. take my medication, fix my bedtime snack, etc. Then I read for a while and I am asleep at about 9:45 pm. I sleep until about 6 am, get up and turn on the computer, make the coffee and light my first cigarette. Then I read the news on the BBC news website until I am saturated. Then I feed the cats and walk the dog. Take my medication again and my vitamins and write this blog on some days. On other days I just sit there for a while and drink orange juice and coffee. When my motor has been properly started, I clean up the house and after that, I watch dumb programs on TV until the dog has to be walked again and Eduard comes home at lunchtime. I try to read in the afternoon, but I still find that hard to do, unless it is non-fiction, like a book about bipolar disorder. Halfway through the afternoon, I start looking at the clock and I start counting how many hours there are left until I can go to sleep again. So at 3 pm, I say: Oh, only 6 more hours. That’s how much I look forward to going to bed. At 5:30 pm we eat dinner, at 6 pm we watch the news, at 6:30 Eduard goes to work again. I watch some interesting programs on TV, usually having to do with current issues and at 8 pm I make a new batch of cigarettes. At 8: 30 pm I say: Great, just 30 more minutes. And then, of I go. It is a very good ritual. It could be a bit more exciting, except that physically, I am always so tired and low on energy and I know that that is from the medication, but I may want to go and have my thyroid checked. Just to be sure.
More then anything the theme of the day is gratefulness for having a steady mood. No more of the turmoil of going up and down. And no need to drink! And the potential for happiness! I also have to remember that it is wintertime and that I am in hibernation mode, I should be perking up by springtime. My cats are in hibernation mode also, they do an awful lot of sleeping indoors.
Okay, I need to get going now. I have to vacuum again after having done so yesterday. The animals are dropping hair everywhere.